Moving to secondary school is an exciting step, and it’s normal for children—and parents—to feel a mix of anticipation and nerves. Here are the essentials to help your child settle in confidently.

How You Can Support Your Child

• Talk openly about what they’re looking forward to and any worries.

• Build familiarity by attending transition events and practising the travel route.

• Encourage independence with packing their bag, managing a timetable, and organising homework.

• Set routines for sleep, meals, and homework to keep days predictable.

• Stay connected by checking school updates and contacting the form tutor with any concerns.

Common Questions

• Friends: Most children make new friends quickly with school support.

• Getting lost: Very common at first—staff guide students until routes feel natural.

• Homework: Expect a gradual increase; schools ease students in.

• Who to contact: Usually the form tutor or pastoral team.

If Your Child Feels Anxious

Reassure them that nerves are completely normal. Most settle in after the first few weeks. If worries continue, the pastoral team can help.

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